I gave him all the answers, how to get strong, how to hit the weights. I offered all sorts of help, all he had to do was show up. Anything I could do I offered. He won’t do any of it. I gave him all the answers and he will choose to fail. I hope I am wrong. He doesn’t want it, he wants to look like he wants it.
How many times have I been offered and given the same degree of help by others? Do I have all the answers? Do I know how to do the things I am trying to do? Have people helped me and given me all the answers? Do I have everything I need for massive success served to me on a silver platter? Do I choose not to do anything about it? Do I not want it? Do I want to lose?
Recognizing help when it is presented is a skill. Giving up things like pride and just taking help is a skill too. Loving things like pride more than winning, well that is just stupid.
Do I want to win? Or do I want to look like I want to win?